2006年已经过了好多天了，我却还没有在blog上写05年度总结和06新年展望，也没有祝大家新年好。我的祝福就在这里补上先：“大家2006新年如意！Happy new year！”
熟悉我的朋友都知道，2005年我辞掉上海的工作来到贵州做英语培训项目。这一年我经历了很多挫折，可以说是一路挫过来的。经过这一年我改变了许多。假如把2005的过程镂空，只看两端。那么站在2005起端那一头的我和站在2005末端那一头的我在某些问题上的把握简直就是两个人。这种巨大的转变来自于2005整个一年的经历。这种改变主要体现在我的观念和行事方式上。因而它是深刻的。我也不知道多年以后，待回头看，我是否会感谢2005这一年，是否会认为它是我人生的第一次转折。这些只能在许多年之后才能知晓。现在，我只能确定一点，那就是2005我的经历确实教给了我一些东西。比如，“开放的真正含义是放下自我，真诚地倾听他人”；比如，“敏锐的市场嗅觉和素质过硬的团队是企业最宝贵的财富”；比如，“在人际交往中，主动跨出第一步，事情就会有很大的转变”；比如，“学会欣赏他人能让自己更开阔”；比如，“生活一定会让高高在上的傲慢者摔跟头”；比如，“只有先付出，才可能有回报”；比如……
还有太多的比如。这些比如也许在任何书上都读得到，我自己以前也读到过，但2005我却是从心里悟出的这些道理。2005年也许可说是我人生中的一次小洗礼。它使我意识到我性格中某些负面的东西：太自我，不注重人际交往，看问题以自我为中心，主观，太早对事物下判断，太容易放弃，不善于倾听，忽略与家人的沟通，还不够脚踏实地……
要矫正这些缺点，需要时间和艰辛的努力。但首先意识到这些缺点的存在就是一种进步。我想2006年的新我一定会比2005的旧我更加成熟。
05快结束的时候，我让熟悉我的朋友说说我这个人的缺点。这个行为对我来说是一种进步。要是以前，我根本不屑于去了解别人眼中的自己。我觉得我就是我，只要我真的是“这样”，哪管别人把我误解成“那样”！可经过2005年，我改变了这个想法。首先，询问别人对自己的看法，这个行为本身就是对别人的尊重，说明你在乎别人的看法。其次，别人对自己的看法是自我调整的一种参照。也许别人看得不对，但既然别人是在和我的交往中得出某种结论的，那么我自己的行为一定就有调整的空间，因为是这种行为错误地传达了我要表达的信息！仅就这一点来说，2006年我就有很大的调整空间。与其抱怨别人对自己的误解，不如寻找误解发生的原因并根除这个原因。
我是一个很有梦想的人，从心底里不愿平庸地生活。我有一本本子，那上面记录着我一生想做的事。小到养花养草，大到创办机构。我真想看看，到我老了、生命行将结束的时候，这些愿望到底实现了多少。05年我倒是实现了其中一个愿望，养猫。而且一养就是两只。最近，我发现了一个网站，“My 43 things”，这个网站就相当于你的个人愿望备忘录，什么样的愿望你都可以往上头写，而且你可以在全球找到你的同僚。我把大多数愿望从只有我一个人看的本子上copy到了我的43件事上和大家分享。我希望这一生想做的事，我都能努力追求，尽所能地去实现，那样的话，老的时候就一定会是一个慈祥、优雅、智慧的老人。
Crystal Mind
透明思考 纯净心灵
2006-1-9 19:21:13
一生想做的事
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